Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Hair perming

Look at you, when I asked if you wanna perm your hair, you immediately nodded, girl girl is girl girl.
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Tie your hair has never been a problem, you will let me do your hair to any style I wish too.
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You feel weird going out without dressing up or tie up the hair, getting used to it.
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Stay at home and going out, very much different. Kai Kai YiYi always say you 披头散发 at home.

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Yes, OBASAN at home and princess when go out :P
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Not only hair perming, you want to put on the mosturizer, lotion, blushes, mask whenever you see mummy put in on, young pretty lady in progress :)

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Labour story

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Exactly one year since I gave birth to Cayden, it's time to jot down the labour story before my memory lapsed.
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Well well...fly back to year 2010, Jan 9. Done with my usual check up in the morning, hubby suddenly has the urge to get everything ready, he felt that the baby will come out very soon, at anytime. So, he asked if I got everything well prepared? Did I get enough clothing for Cayden? We headed to KLCC, to stock up more clothing for Cayden, just in case.
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On Sunday, 10 Jan 2010, we had steamboat at home and was happily discussed about choosing the ideal date for baby Cayden to come out. Hubby and I agreed with 15 Jan 2010, Friday but my mum disagree about it. So, we were thinking to admit to hospital on 15th Jan 2010 evening and hopefully can give birth on Saturday morning, which is 16 Jan 2o10. Everyone is getting ready for baby Cayden's arrival in 1 week time.
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That night, after Tiffy slept, Hubby and I had pilow talk, we talked about our baby cayden, our Tiffy, our life with 2 babies, our babies' education, our future, our babies' future. Before we both fell asleep, I told hubby that my tummy was not well since dinner till now, not sure if the baby wanted to come out already? To comfort me, hubby said why not we just go to hospital tomorrow morning, I know he doenst want to see me suffer and think too much. I did not asnwer him, just quietly close my eyes and try to sleep. I'm not sure if really fell asleep, the pain comes and goes, it's like a dream, yet the pain is so real. Around 2am, I cant bear with the bear anymore, I woke up and started to count the interval of the pain strike. 5 minutes....7 minutes...the pains were so unbearable.
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At 3.30am, I woke up hubby, telling him that my tummy was in great pain, but I'm not sure if this is 'contraction pain', not sure whether baby wanna come out. My water did not break, I did not have red discharge. So hubby ask me how? wanna go hospital now? Hmm...I told him to wait until 6am. Hubby couldnt sleep anymore, he woke up to take a bath, cleanup the room and prepare all the stuff for Tiffy. 5am, I couldnt bear with the scary pain anymore, i wanna go to hospital immediately. After informed mum-in-law that we are going to hospital now and need her help to take care Tiffy, we headed to PCMC at 5.15am. Along the way, the pain strike me every 5-10 minutes, however my mind was clear, I started to think about the whole process of labour. Oh, I told hubby I'm nervous.
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Checked in to the room I'm going to stay for 3 days 2 nights, my midwife came and checked on me. The machine was showing I have extreme contraction pain, but I'm not dilated at all. The midwife came to check on me every 15 minutes, gave me medicine to clear my bowel. Around 8am, doctor came to do the internal, I'm only 1cm dilated. Doctor asked me if wanna wait for full dilation slowly or do a induction to speed up the process. Without hesitation, I answered, Induction and Epidural.
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After a while, another doctor came, to put on the epidural, I was in great pain, my face was pale and I cant talk. In my heart, I was wishing the epidural act quickly to bring away all my pain, I scolded myself in heart for being forgetful, what's the lesson of the pain suffered during 1st baby, why am I putting myself in such situation again. I hugged the pillow tightly when doctor was injecting the epidural, wishing the contraction pain did not strike when doctor pop the needle to my spine. Dont know suffer for how long, finally the pain gone, I feel my legs numb, I started talking and joking with hubby. My midwife came and jokingly told me that she finally see my smiley face. I couldnt eat the breakfast provided since labour could come anytime. While waiting, I watched astro or chatted with friends and family over the phone. My dilation speed up after induction. Before 1pm, I'm fully dilated and it's time to give birth. Nurses, doctor, midwife all get busy to get the things ready. I cant feel the contraction, so I followed the instruction from the nurse when she asked me to push. I remembered I was still watching AXN while I pushing, with my spec on, i just dont know where should i look at. Doctor jokingly scolded me, this mummy arr..giving birth still wanna watch TV, look at her, still wearing her specs...someone pls remove her spec and make her concentrate on giving birth. After a few pushing, Cayden is out. When the nurse lay Cayden on my chest, I shed my tears. I just couldnt accept the truth that I have given birth to another baby, and he looks exactly like his sister. The feeling is so warm and close, my life is perfect, with two healthy babies and a loving hubby....
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It's just 2pm++ after the whole process, Cayden was immediately brought to me for breastfeeding right after I was sent to ward. I feel extremely giddy, the same feeling right after I gave birth to Tiffy. I requested for milo and throw out everything after I drank, i requested few more rounds and throw out everything. I know I have to bear alittle more longer, I so wanted to breastfeed my baby, hubby was very supportive, he's with me to go thru the whole process. And then, the rest of the days are all about guests visiting and breastfeeding.
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To be honest, my memory lapse again, I miss pregnant, I miss giving birth, I miss confinement month. Especially the days staying in hospital right after giving birth, the service offered makes me feel like a queen and I totally enjoyed my stay in this hospital. Then again, no 3rd one in planning cause I dont miss taking care small baby:p

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

I'm 1 today!!!

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Big boy is 1 today!!!!
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weight : 10.7kg
height : 80cm
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Diet :
  • 8oz of milk, 5 times a day. 8am, 12pm, 5pm, 8pm and 11pm
  • 2-3 times of solid

Tooth :

  • 7 in total (4 tops and 3 bottoms)

Sleep :

  • On average sleep from 8 or 9pm to next day 7 or 8am
  • Adjusted to nap only once a day, usually from 12pm to 3pm
  • Still prefer to sleep on tummy

New developments :

  • Can walk very well without assistance
  • Clap hands
  • Wave bye bye
  • Praying with both hands when ask to do so
  • Pout and cry when we take away the thing from his hand or we sound stern and tell him NO
  • Scream when he wants to eat something and he needs to be fed in really really fast speed
  • Hold his own feeding bottle until he finishes the milk
  • Make his big business in the potty everyday after morning feed
  • Love to open and close cabinet doors
  • Love to play padlock and love to open the doors with keys, but fail everytime
  • Love knocking his head on the bed or even floor
  • Love playing hide and seek
  • Love to throw thing to the floor
  • Love water and definitely love showering
  • Isnt speak any audible words thus far

Big Boy Birthday Celebration - 2nd round

Cayden boy,
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This is your second round of 1st birthday celebration and it was held at babysitter's house. Put on the new shirt, new pant from babysitter's family, you are the world most handsome boy.
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My big boy
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Still fuss and cry like baby sometimes
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Most of the times, you will laugh like this...very cheeky :)
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Your second birthday cake, with a huge candle.
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Cayden boy boy, almost one year staying with aunty and her family, you have built up a strong bond with them. Each time, when I see your happy face returning to babysitter's house, I feel relief, but deep down I feel a little bit of sad and down, I love you more than anyone else and I wish you will love me more than loving anybody else. Cayden boy boy, no matter how, you are mummy's dearest and sweetest boy boy, mummy loves you, muacckkkssss :D

Monday, January 10, 2011

We @ Top of the world

Cayden boy, Tiffany
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When u both grow up, will you still remember the very first Genting trip you both went together. The trip which you both napped in the car all the way from home to Genting. Playing the apples in the hotel.
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Riding the carousel together.
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Enjoyed the mist and cold strong wind together
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Being fenced up outside the theme park
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Wanted to get in but you both are too small
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Saw the litttle tiger and Cayden insisted to come down from daddy's arm to touch it.
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Daddy gave you both a big hug
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Mummy gave you both a big hug
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We @ Top of the world on 10.01.2011
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We both were young and you both were small
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Will you both still remember it?
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Looking back those old photos in the harddisk...
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This was taken 5 years ago, daddy and mummy just married. Now, all of us got married with kids...
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This was taken in year 2008, 1 month before you, Tiffany came to this world.
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Year 2009
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Year 2010
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Time flies.....

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Tiffany @ Top of the world

Tiffany,
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3rd time, you've been to this place...
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1st time was 2009, when you was 7 months old.
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2nd time, year 2010, when you was 19 months
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Now, you are 30 months, again, at the same place.
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From small small till this big big, from brave brave becomes timid timid, my timid girl who never show your smiley face on a carousel...
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But get very excited over the mist...
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You @ this age, scared of many many things...
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You scared of the clown u saw at Genting
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You scared of the ride on the carousel
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You scared of the mist out there and said must hold our hand tight as the mist will make your eye pain pain (funny statement)
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The night at Genting
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You : Mummy, why we dont want to go home sleep?
Me : We are going to stay at hotel tonight...
You : Hotel is whose house house?
Me : Hotel is the place to sleep when u go out.
You : Leng Leng wanna go home le...
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Very typical cancer, the crab baby, who loves home very much :)
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Cayden @ Top of the world

Cayden boy boy,
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This is your first time going to Genting Highland. We thought it wont be that cold, but it's colder than we think, and misty too...
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As usual, we checked in to hotel and get a rest first. You are having so much fun, scouting around the room, climbing up the bed, touching everything in the room.
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Until you discovored the apples...
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Sitting on the bed, munching the apple, throwing it to the bed and floor, seeing it roll away, apples have kept you sitting for quite some times before you get bored with it.
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Then, you started to find some others interesting stuff in the room. You just cant stop and sit for awhile, my active boy boy.
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Even on a carousel, you just cant sit still and enjoy the ride....
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The only way to keep you sitting still is to put you on the stroller and buckled you up, of course you'll fatt lan zha, shouting and screaming and sometimes crying.
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You prefer running around wildly more.
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Flying in daddy's arm is another fun option.
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Lucky you have very tough kneecap, buttock, elbow, head to absorb the momentum each time you falls. You hardly cried and always stand up on your own, continue your journey of happiness, hunting around.
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My big boy, you are really a big boy now. When I'm looking at you, 'running' around, moving away quickly, I know, you are no longer my small baby who is cuddling in my arm. Snapping your photo could be a difficult job now...
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My big boy, you gave mummy 2 unforgettable memories here.

1. You tripped yourself at the lobby lift of hotel and cried very loud. When daddy carried you up, realized that you bite your lip and bled so much. My big boy, you can walk now, but have to walk slowly and carefully oh :)

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2. You fussed through the whole dinner because it has passed your bedtime. You are making such a big fuss until I need to carry you away from the table and make you sleep. When the time you fall asleep, everybody has finished their dinner except me. I thought I can have a peaceful dinner then, half way eating, Tiffany said she wants to pass urine. Aiks..ended up, I dont know what have I eaten? My 2 MahLous, after having you both, eating time is like a war time...Fighting with 2 loving monkeys:).