Sunday, January 31, 2010

Sharing

Tiffy doesnt want to share her things, from toys to foods, even it's her least favourite toy or food, she just refused to share it with others. I hope that she isn't really being selfish. She might not know the meaning of sharing or perhaps it's a stage where every child must go through. Definitely, it's no fun to watch her grab a toy or biscuit or book or anything else and shout "Leng Leng的, Leng Leng的!"

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For the first, second or even third forth times, it's funny and cute to see she shouted "Leng Leng的, Leng Leng的!". But when she refused to share or trying to grab the stuff which she thinks it's belong to her with high pitch of shouting and cry at that moment she cant get it, she's not cute anymore!!!

We want to educate her, we wish to help her to overcome this development stage. So, I googled for helps. Daddy, these are some of the steps/techniques we could use.

  • kids learn by imitating what they see, so take every opportunity to show your child how to share. ("I'm eating a really good sandwich, and I'd love to share it with you. Would you like some?") When your toddler attempts to share, praise his efforts. Little by little, he'll drink in the positive reinforcement and feel good about repeating those actions that seem to make you so happy. Before long, he'll start sharing because it comes naturally.
  • Toddlers do lots of "proto-sharing" — showing an object to other people and allowing them to manipulate it without quite letting go. Though it doesn't look like it, it's a big step toward sharing, so reinforce it. "How nice of you to show Seth your telephone," you might say. Later, when he's started playing with something else, you could suggest he pass the phone to his friend, and praise him for doing so. Whether the other child wants the toy at this point is not as important as practicing the act of sharing and being rewarded for it.
  • If toys just seem to incite too many quarrels and tugs-of-war, you may want to steer clear of them altogether and engage your child and his playmates in a project such as making pretend cookies with modeling clay or drawing pictures. That way, they can be involved in the same fun activities without having to share possessions.
  • Walk away: If things get really bad and your child refuses to give back a toy to their crying owner then it’s time to take action. Gently pick up your child and walk away. They may kick and scream but remember YOU are in charge. Take him to a quiet corner or space and wait for him to calm down. Then give him a hug and explain that you know he really wanted that toy but that it belongs to someone else. Chances are your child isn’t going to understand or accept the meaning of this but you’ve now diffused the situation and can continue to play happily.
  • You should never punish a child, especially one this age, for not sharing. You can let him know you're disappointed and sad when he doesn't share, but that's it. Don't make a big deal out of it. Some of these struggles should be ignored — you don't want sharing to become a parent-child battleground. Let him work this out with other children. When he doesn't share, his friends will let him know in no uncertain terms how unhappy they are, and he'll learn that sometimes it takes hard work to be a good friend!

I hope we can very soon find back our lovely Tiffy who loves to share everything :)

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Pacifier


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I hate pacifier, I always hate it!!! Somehow, for baby Cayden, I need to give in, I need to surrender myself. He's so demanding and making so much noise. He's taking 3 oz of milk every 2 hours, there is no way for me to shorter the time for his feeding, but he's like getting not enough milk and always want to have more. Aiks!!!
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I gave him the pacifier yesterday evening. The moment I pop it into his mouth, he can immediately pick up the technique and suck so well. No choice, no choice.....this is the only way to keep him quiet and sleep tight for longer period.
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'Pacifiers are for the comfort of babies, not the convenience of parents', this is so true. Hopefully Cayden can wean off pacifier when he is 8 months old, just like his JieJie.
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Friday, January 29, 2010

2 weeks 4 days


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Cayden is 2 weeks 4 days old today, yet still a small small baby. This is his progress for the past 2 weeks.
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  • On full breastfeed since the beginning of this week (25.1.2010)
  • Drinks 3 oz of milk every 2 hours.
  • Change from 1 hole teat to 2 holes teat this week too. He's making big fuss using 1 hole teat.
  • A very punctual 'alarm clock'. Cry for milk exactly at 2 hourly. Sometimes even shorter.
  • Very hot temper. The minute he cant his milk, will pout and cry loudly.
  • Prefer to sleep on his side, especially left side.
  • Usually poo poo in the midnight.
  • Making lot of noise while deep asleep (sounds like 'yi yi ah ah', not sure why)
  • Skin tone, still very red with some spots on his neck and face.
  • Do not like to be swaddled.
  • Having his herb SPA every morning since home till to-date.
  • Able to stay awake for 2 hours or more.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Second day....

'Leng Leng's beg beg le??', this is what Tiffy asked early in the morning, she's still feeling excited and passionate to go to school...Yeah yeah~!~!~! :)
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Taking her breakfast before heading to school.
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Eating the last bite of her favourite biscuit while daddy helped her to put on shoes.
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Happily riding in daddy's car to go to school.
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Repeating this sentence to daddy and mummy in the car, ''yang yang jie jie har...(then laughing)'' (means sayang jie jie which we reminded her thousand times to be friendly)
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Oh, it's time to school!!!



Tiffy refused to follow the teacher to wash hand this time, and she hold my hand tight, did not want to let go my hand and wanted me to sit down and played toys with her. I slipped away while she's concentrating with the toys. (I felt bad doing this, is this the correct way arr??). The next minute, I heard she's crying for MaMa, heart-broken when hearing this :'''( . The teacher tried to comfort and distract her by playing her some toys, when I peep at her again, she has already happily playing with it.
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Pick her up around 11.30am, she was so happy when she see mum-in-law and I. Have a chat with the teacher. These are the comment given :
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1. Tiffy is very particular on her stuff. She refuse to let others to touch her things, ie beg. If someone touches it, she will shout 'Leng Leng 的'.
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2. Tiffy wants thing to be in her way, ie she refused to put the beg on the shelf and carry it everywhere she goes.
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3. Tiffy refused to wash her hands when it's meal time. (teacher mentioned that maybe is the malay kakak at the washroom scared her)
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4. She loves to play puzzles.
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Overall, Tiffy needs time to get used to the new environments and also to follow the rules and regulations. She might refuse to go to school after 1 week time once she realize that it has many rules and regulations she needs to follow, ie to queue up or to wash hand. And also she cant have everything in her way, reading time means reading time, playing time means playing time, before meal, everyone must wash hands and etc.
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I'm happy with her progress. Being the youngest in the class, she did not cry or fuss as much as I expect. This is a transition period which I think every parent needs to go through. I have decided to continue with the course. But when to start it?? In Feb, the school will close for 1 week for CNY, in March, school will close again for school holiday and in April, I'm bringing Tiffy to UK for 12 days. So, maybe May is the right time to start Tiffy with new schooling life.


Wednesday, January 27, 2010

First day school - Trial

In Tiffy's small beg, these are the things
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Spare clothing
Diaper
Hanky
Tumbler
Snacks (a potato bun and some animals shaped butter biscuits)
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Tiffy was so excited when we told her that she's going to school. She tells everyone 'Leng Leng 去读书咯!!!' and check if her beg is on the table earlier in the morning once she woke up.
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Parent-in-law worried that Tiffy cant adapt to the new environment, worried that the security of the 'school' is not good, worried that the teachers are not loving and caring, worried Tiffy will cry and fussy. Anyway, I have confidence to her, if she really cant adapt to it and cry, then no choice, we shall wait she grows older. At least, I know it isnt the good timing to send her to school. But, I have a feeling, my little girl can make it!!!
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Tiffy's getting all ready to go to 'school'. She kissed goodbye everyone at home and happily go out with her small beg.
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Reaching 'school'...
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Tiffy was very well behaved. Once we reached the 'school', she followed the teacher to wash hand. I dont even have time to say goodbye to her. When I peep at her, she's already mixing well with other kids and enjoy playing the toys.
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I called to check on her progress around 10am, teacher said she's ok, did not cry or fuss, but she asked a few times, 'where is mummy?', the teacher told her that mummy go pay parking ticket, she's ok and continue with the activities.
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I go to fetch her around 11.30am, peep at what's doing in the activities room. Tiffy's enjoying her snacks. She did not realize I was there. To my surprise, she can sit still there eating the snacks.
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When everyone almost finished their meal, teacher was actually helping Tiffy to put the snacks into her beg. She fussed. She wanted to finish all the biscuits I let her bring to school. Aiks!!! To Tiffy, eat is the most wonderful moment in the world :D
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Well, Tiffy is very independent and brave. She did not cry or fuss throughout the whole session from 9.30am to 11.30am, without hubby and I at her side. I'm so proud of my little girl.
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Is my baby willing to go to 'school' again tomorrow? It will be another challenge :)
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Note : In the session, there was a 22 months old new comer who cried non stop when we reached there. Teacher was worried that Tiffy will cry as well when she sees the other girl is crying. And teacher told me this is Tiffy's reaction : She look at the girl, and then turn back, continue with her meal as if nothing happen. Hehehe :) this is my baby....so cute!!! My 18 and a half months old little girl, going to school all by herself. Hooray!~!~!~! (the youngest child, yet brave and independant child in the class)

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Talking so much...

Tiffy ables to speak many words and short sentences. Sometimes, she's talking too much until I need to ask if she can quiet down for a moment.

These are the sentences Tiffy speaks everyday.

(1) Leng Leng 的 - said it when someone took away her stuff or when she wants to express the ownership of one thing.

(2) MaMa 骂骂哦!!! - said it when she does something not right or not permitted.
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(3) Where??!! - said it when she's trying to find something or someone.
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(4) Daddy make nen nen - said it when she wants to drink milk in the morning.
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(5) Daddy pour ter(water) - said it when her water bottle is empty
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(6) Put there - said it when she wants to put something at somewhere.
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(7) 姐姐来, daddy 来,阿嬷来... - said it when she wants someone to come here.
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(8) daddy 做工, 公公做工 - said it when they go to work.
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(9) mummy eat rice rice - when CL brought up my lunch or dinner to me.
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(10) Leng Leng eat bread bread - said it when she's eating bread
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(11) Ter (water) no more, rice rice no more - said it when something finished. (with her hand twisting like this)



Tiffy can say many more words and sentences which I couldnt list all out.

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Tomorrow, my little one's going to attend a trial class (for 2 days starting tomorrow from 9.30am to 12pm) without daddy or mummy at her side.
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To Tiffy : Mummy's barbie is very brave, mummy's barbie will not cry or fuss. At school, barbie can make alot of friends, can play with them, eating snacks with them. Going to school is FUN!!!! Mummy hope you will enjoy it ya :D

Monday, January 25, 2010

Noon nap

A hot afternoon, with the full speed of aircond in my room...
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sssssshhhhhhhhhh :x quiet please~~~~~~~Babies are sleeping...
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大宝.....
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小宝.....
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Looking at both babies in the sweet dream land. I think I should take a nap too :)

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Wait ya

Squatting down, picking up the crayons, mummy cant see what's Tiffy doing, but camera can!!!
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Caught you!!! Using the crayons to draw your palm, arent you??
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Again!!! As if mummy does not know what are you doing....
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Never afraid mummy will scold Tiffy....
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Tiffy's little hand, fat and smooth....
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wooohooo....nice colouring :)



Mummy's little girl...playing with the crayons alone one afternoon.
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Wait ya, mummy's barbie....
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Wait for few more months, DiDi will play with you ya...
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Wait for few more months, DiDi will be your best buddy...
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Friday, January 22, 2010

Same sleeping style

Cayden is 1 weeks 4 days old today.
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Eyes are getting bigger, rounder and wider :)
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I like to sleep like this....just like my jie jie.....
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Tiffy's favourite sleeping style...
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Same to Cayden....
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I do not like to be swaddled, especially with my both hands tuck in. I prefer to sleep like this....See how sweetly and deeply I sleep!!!!
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ZzzzZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzZZZzzZZzzzzzzzzZzzZz
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P/S. Mummy discovered I do not like to be swaddled when I keep on making noise in the afternoon, cant sleep tight the whole afternoon. After mummy release my hands out, Wow!!! Immediately have a sweet dream :)

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Close shop

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With the arrival of Cayden, it's just nice to form a pair of 'GOOD', so hubby and I agreed to stop the production. Well, I dare not say we will stop the production forever, who knows?? Accident does happen or maybe few years down the road, we change our mind to have another baby?? :D Anyway, I'm not planning to have neither baby tiger nor baby bunny and baby dragon. Both of the babies are enough to keep us occupied all the time.
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Wednesday, January 20, 2010

I'm working too...

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(At downstair, grandpa ready to go to work while Tiffy's waiting at the door)
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Grandpa : Leng Leng, bye bye...公公去做工了。。。
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Tiffy : (wanted to follow and requested grandpa to put on her shoes) 鞋穿,鞋穿,鞋穿。。。
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Grandpa : 没有gai gai, 公公去做工
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Tiffy : (insisting and requesting to put on her shoes with louder voice) 鞋穿,鞋穿,鞋穿!!!
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Grandma : 公公没有去gai gai, 公公去做工罢了,daddy 晚上才带你去gai gai。。。
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Tiffy : Leng Leng 做工, Leng Leng 做工。。。
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WUAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH~!~!~!!~!~! :D
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Mummy loud out loud listen to their conversation at upstair, cant believe my little girl said she need to go to work too. She must be thinking, 公公去做工, so can wear shoes and go out, daddy 去做工, also can wear shoes and go out, hence, she just follow what they said and tell us 'Leng Leng 做工'.
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Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Jaundice?

I'm always worry that Cayden will get jaundice. To be frank, I do not know how to determine if he's 'yellow' or not. When I press his skin at his back, it shows yellow print. Then, I tried to press his leg, it left yellow print also. Is this considered jaundice? Chinese always say if baby very 'yellow', bath him with herb water, feed him with pearl powder, can help to fight the 'yellowish'. But in fact, I know it wont help much.
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This morning, I found that Cayden is 'yellow' than yesterday, even his white of eyes also yellowish in colour. I do not want to risk him. I do not want to keep on worrying about this matter, so I called up hubby to check if he's free to bring Cayden to hospital to do a check up.
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From doctor's observation, she mentioned that Cayden is not that 'yellow', the index should be around 240. However, she still carried out the blood test. Hubby called me after half and hour, telling me that Cayden's Jaundice's index is only 215 (if exceed 300, may need to undergo photo therapy). Finally, I feel relief. The peak 1 week of Jaundice period has passed. Everything should be alright by then.
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Cayden is now weighted 3.47kg (birth weight was 3.23kg), good weight gain in just 1 week according to doctor. He's now in full breastmilk during day time and still on formula during night. Hopefully I can breastfeed him exclusively in time to come :)
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Solving puzzle games

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Tiffy is addicted with the puzzle games recently. She can fix some of the puzzles all by herself, those with 4-5 pieces. For those 6 pieces and above, she need consistent help from us. Anyway, she is quite patient in fixing the puzzles, it could really keep her entertained for the whole afternoon.

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Monday, January 18, 2010

Poo poo in the potty

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As usual, Tiffy told me she wants to 'mmng mmng' after her morning feed, instead of asking her to squat down, I asked her to get the potty.
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Without putting high hope that she will poo poo in the potty, we both keep repeating 'mmng mmng'....'mmng mmng....'. Few minutes later, she requested me to pull her to stand. Aiks!!! I'm sure she has failed this round. I insist her to sit on the potty but she already stand up by herself. When I checked the potty....OH YES!!! she poo poo in it. That's a good start. She suposed to know how to poo poo in potty instead of diaper earlier.
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Sunday, January 17, 2010

Daddy and DiDi

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~The warmest moment~

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Nen-nen all the time


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Hungry Cayden, requesting for nen-nen all the time when he's awake. And he refuses to sleep eventhough we have fed him. Now, he's drinking 2.5oz of milk every 2 hours. Sometimes, he can drink up to 3.5 oz of milk.
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Not sure if his mouth is 'itchy' or wat? I felt that if we give him pacifier, he will quiet down and not making so much noise, However, when talk about PACIFIER, of course NO WAY...This would be my last solution if I really cant 'settle' him after CL left :)
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Friday, January 15, 2010

Do we look alike?

Do we look alike??
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When doctor put Cayden on my tummy the moment he was born, my first thought was, ''oh gosh, how come Cayden looks like from the same pancake mould as his jie jie?'' To me, he really looks alike his Tiffy sister, especially the mouth and their chins. It's indeed like sister like brother.

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Tiffany and Cayden

With the arrival of Cayden, our new family member, there are certain changes which affect everyone, include Tiffy.
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Overall, Tiffy has been very good girl. I doubt she understands the meaning of 'DiDi' and who actually is this 'DiDi', how and where he comes from? However, she's showing sign of 'friendly' to her DiDi and being very cooperatives.
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These are the things happened these few days.
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1. Tiffy always call her DiDi as 'rou rou mei mei' and we need to correct her that he is Cayden DiDi.
2. Tiffy will sayang his DiDi when we ask her to do so, but she's quite rude in touching her DiDi.
3. Tiffy wanted me to carry her when I'm carrying his DiDi.
4. Tiffy wanted me to hold her hand when I walk out of the room carrying DiDi
5. When I sit on the bed carrying DiDi, Tiffy came to my side and lie of my thigh calling me 'Mamieee'
6. Tiffy will help me to take DiDi's hanky, blanket, pillow or bottles.
7. When DiDi cries, Tiffy request me to carry DiDi by saying 'mamiee bao!!!' and pointed at DiDi.
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For now, Tiffy still sleep with us, DiDi sleeps with confinement lady. I'll still feed her and pat her to sleep. We tried to entertain or respond to her every's need. Except hubby, CL or mum-in-law will take turn to shower her, and sometimes, mum-in-law will bring her to downstair to play with her, so that I can have enough rest. We hope that Tiffy will not develop into 'jealousy' stage where she will refuse to accept his DiDi or have the feeling that the arrival of DiDi has threatened her position at home. So, we are trying our best to maintain everything at the original order.

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Discharged from hospital

Cayden and I are officially discharged from hospital today. Cayden has no sign of Jaundice yet, but we need to monitor him for the next few days. Anyway, we are advised to give him more fluid and to check his diapers everyday.
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First day at home. Everyone is so happy and excited to welcome our new family member.
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Cayden's face and eyes are puffy and swollen. Nose with many small white spots (like 'white heads'), especially on his tip of nose.
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There are many red spot, like baby acne all over his cheeks and chin too...
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Doctor mentioned that these are harmless and usually disappear by about 4 - 6 weeks. For chinese, they believe the mother does not consume enough coconut water before gave birth and it cause heaty to baby. Well, I have to admit, I'm not in time to drink lot of coconut water since Cayden arrived 12 days earlier :p
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Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Day 2 @ Prince Court

Second day at Prince Court.
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Baby Cayden's sleeping soundly.


Room with KLCC view....relaxing....



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Doing the stretching exercise....



MeiFang Yiyi with baby Cayden...Both having the same DOB.

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Due earlier??

I had my 38th week check-up today. Most probably I'm going to induce by next week. Well, I'm not sure this is good news or bad news. When the doctor did the ultrasound and check on the amniotic fluid. It showed that the level of my amniotic fluid is just border line, around 8cm. She mentioned that normally doctor will ensure there are '4 pools of water' which all the measurements add up together should be more than 8cm to 10cm, but she only able to find '2 pools of water' thru ultrasound, and the measurements are around 4cm+ and 2cm ++ only. And also she mentioned that the placenta is only able to work up to certain limit, if the baby's getting too big or pass the due date, the placenta might not be functioning efficiently. However, from the ultrasound, she's satisfied with the condition of my placenta. So, she reminded me to be very careful in each of the changes of my body. I have to admit to the hospital immediately for below circumtances :
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1. If the water breaks

2. If I have red discharge

3. If I have contraction pain

4. If the baby movements is less than 10 times in 12 hours

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Anyway, she mentioned that if there isnt any signs of delivery by next Saturday, I'm going to have induction. Hubby and I decided to choose 15.1.10 Friday to be induced, no specific reason, just because it's a Friday and I'm going to stay in the hospital throughout the weekend. However, mum mentioned that Friday is 'Chor Yat' in lunar calender, which is not so good for delivery, baby will be very naughty next time according to mum and sis.

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Well, I have yet to call up PCMC for an appointment for induction ad delivery. Will see how by Monday?

Thursday, January 7, 2010

18 months old

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Tiffany is 1 year and 6 months old today!!!


Weight : ?kg
Length : ?cm
Head : ?cm

Tiffy's diet :

Basically, Tiffy eats everything we eat. She's showing sign of getting bored with the same foods everyday, so from now, rice with soup, noodle, porridge, kuey teow will be in rotation basis as and when it's available.

8.5oz of milk, 4 times a day.
1 portion of cereal or oat in the morning
1 portion of fruit in the afternoon
2 portion of porridge or soft rice in the afternoon and evening.

Tiffy very first pearly white :

Total 16 teeth
8 teeth on the upper jaw and 8 teeth on the bottom jaw. (Some are not fully grown, still in the midst of sprouting)

Tiffy's sleeping pattern :

Sigh!!! The most headache part, she refuses to take her noon nap and sleep at nite, making me mad everytime. Eventhough, still maintaining the same sleeping pattern.

Sleep throughout the night from 8.30 pm to 7.30am. One noon nap during day time, from 12pm to 3pm.

Tiffy's new developments :

  • Able to walk up and down stairs confidently without us to hold her hands
  • Begin to help dress herself but not yet able to deal with buttons or zips. Most of the time, need help from us.
  • Learning how to self feeding, still making a mess and need improvement.
  • She has been showing a very bad habit of spitting whatever she dislike to eats (especially on harder texture foods or fruit)
  • Able to say her own name. She will say ' leng leng's shoes le??', leng leng's pants le ?''
  • Become more independant. She prefers to walk down or up the stairs by herself without us holding her hands or carry her.

Tiffy's mood :

  • Started showing her “terrible two” symptoms this month, insisting on getting whatever she wants. Cry at every instant that she is not pleased.
  • Bad temper. Throw and send everything to the floor if she cant get what she wants.
  • Good in 'manja' everyone. Just like when I scold her or ignore her for something she did, she’ll keep quiet for a while, and then come around calling with her manja soft voice, ‘mommieeeee’ and repeat and repeat and repeat until I acknowledge her… If I don’t, she’ll continue until I respond.
  • Though it’s really tiring and annoying sometimes with her demands and shouting and crying, she’s in that age where she’s so cheeky and sometimes you just can’t help but laugh. And everytime you think she amazed you enough, she has something else up her sleeves to surprise you with.

Tiffy's vocab :

  • She could say or repeat many words/short sentences. This is what daddy taught her, meaningless sentence but she can remember it for age, ie bom bom cha, nim nim nim nim yu, kunchi kunchi bao. Some other meaningful sentences, ie mommy take big big book book, daddy make nen nen and etc....
  • She can say many words/short sentences in chinese. Once, when Ah mah asked, you dunno how to wear shoes arr? she shake her head and repeat the sentence. So funny!!!
  • Though we sometimes find it difficult to understand what’s she trying to say, for not being able to pronunciate accurately, it’s really fun hearing her go with all the expression and surprising us with new words once in a while.

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Potty training....Failed!!!

We are still failed in training Tiffy to sit on potty. Partly because we are not consistent and persistent enough. Partly because I always give excuse that I'll train her after I give birth (I'm too heavy to squat down together with her oh!!! If I sit on the floor, I feel very hard to pull myself up again. )
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Anyway, our little girl will give her signals that she wants to pass motion. She'll keep saying ''mmmhh mmhhh' before she makes the big business. After she has done with her big business, she'll refuse to sit down.
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This is what she does when she wants to pass motion, she will say ''mmhhh mhhhh' and squat down.
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She is 1.5 years old already, it's time to train her to sit on potty and get her diaper-free at least during day time. This will be my mission after I give birth.
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Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Angry with him

It's 12 am, I woke up without seeing the shadow of him on the bed, my heart was abit angry, why must he always 'MIA' in the midnite and make me walk to downstair to see what he's doing?? Dont he ever understand the risk of me walking down the staircase in a blur blur mode. Early in the morning around 6am, he MIA again, without hesitation, I turned myself to the other side and continue to sleep, knowing he must be downstair either watching TV or reading newspaper. I dont want to bother him anymore.
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Woke up around 8.30am with runny nose, headache, body pain. By the time I saw Tiffy, He has cleaned Tiffy's stool and bath her....OKLAH, dont kira so much with him. I do not want to start my day with negative attitute. Had my birdnest and french toast as breakfast. I feel slightly better.
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Thinking of not feeling so well, I requested him to tapao lunch for me. And surprisingly, he answered, ''OK'' in the sms. So, I happily go to noon nap with Tiffy. Woke up around 1pm, he hasnt home. Hmm....so, I checked my phone, aiks...his client suddenly dropby his office, so he gotta entertain him...nvm lah, I continue to sleep with Tiffy till 2.30pm. I was very hungry when I woke up, somehow the hot cruel sun out there make me dont feel like going out to tapao, so I called McD delivery. After taking my 'lunch', my condition became worst, sore throat, serious runny nose, non-stop sneezing. Tiffy's also affected, she has runny nose after noon nap too.
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Tahan until 7pm, I was very tired and uneasy with the runny nose and body pain, so I tried to make Tiffy to sleep. Well, of course she cant sleep at this hour and keep tossing. In one hand, I was very mad with her, keep scolding and yelling at her, requested her to lie down and sleep. In another hand, my heart was so so guilty, this isnt the time for her to go to bed and she must has feeling unwell with the stuck nose too. Tiffy fell asleep at last after 45 minutes. So, I walked down to living hall, throw him a sentence, 'Go get the number from the clinic NOW'.
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I was so angry with him for not taking good care of his own health. He has runny nose and sore throat since Saturday and refuse to see doctor, only buying the medicine from pharmacy. So what happened next, Tiffy and I got infected by his virus. I was really mad with him for being so irresponsible. He apologized to Tiffy, DiDi and I, promised that he will not do that again. I hope he can understand why I'm so mad and angry with him. He's the pillar of support of this family, his health is so much important, especially at this hour, this moment. What if I suddenly wanna give birth? He should has maintained his health at the optimum level. I dont mean he cant fall sick, he's normal human being too. But if he always stay late in the midnite watching TV, woke up early the next morning, without enough rest, robot also falls sick la....somemore, he knew he has sore throat, he ate chocolates and finish the lobster tapao by fai last Saturday, all by himself. Aiks!!!
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I pray and hope Tiffy, hubby and I will be better tomorrow. Virus, germs, bacteria, please stay away from us.
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** fingers crossed**
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p/s It's 9.30pm, my lovely hubby still watching TV downstair after eating the medicines, I can hear the sound he's making 'wanton'. See!!! this is him!!! **speechless :x **

Monday, January 4, 2010

Lonely


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Sometimes, I feel that Tiffy is lonely. Normally in the afternoon, after her noon nap, she got nothing much to do, besides playing toys, reading books herself. Sometimes, she just run aimlessly in the room, from sofa to bed, from bed to my table, and then, she will climb up the sofa, sit for a while, then, climb down and climb up to the bed, lying there for a while and then come down again.
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She'll be extremely happy and excited when Shannon is here. I'm not sure why? She prefers to play with girls most of the time. Hopefully, when DiDi come out, I could arrange time to send her to some classes. And also, I hope our new family member will keep her entertained for a while.
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Sunday, January 3, 2010

Angel vs Devil - V2

When Tiffy shouts and screams like nobody business, she's a little devil
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When Tiffy has temper tantrums, throws all the stuff to the floor, she's exactly a little devil.
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When Tiffy frowns and faking her crying to get what she wants, AIYA!!! HOW LE???Dunno to cekik her or to pamper her??
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However, Tiffy's our sunshine most of the time. Her cheeky smile always cheer up our days. She'll make all sort of cute reactions, show us 'ghost face', imitates our conversation and behave like a little-big-adult.
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I scolded her sometimes, ''你啊, why so naughty?'' She repeats, ''你啊''. I said again, ''你啊'', she repeats, ''你啊''. So, we are really clueless how to handle this little devil cum little angel??
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**headaches**
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