Tuesday, June 30, 2009

回到最初 - 求婚篇

Date : 26.08.2005

Day : Friday

Time : After work

Venue : From Pru's office to SanFrancisco Steak House MidValley to Cheras's home

People : Suppose to be hubby and I only, but.....

Tools : A bouquet of flowers, a diamond ring, a tonnes of 诚意 and 2 fast beating hearts

It was a ordinary day, a ordinary working day, ordinary heavy workload and ordinary traffic jam at town. Hubby came to pick me up after a long tired working day. I wasnt very surprise as he will come to pick me up sometimes, leaving my car overnight at office's car park. So, I just took the escalator, plan to walk to the driveway to meet up with hubby. Surprisingly, he waited me at the lobby, he's not that type of man who will wait for his girlfriend patiently at the lobby, somemore need to park his car and come down to pick me up....I was delighted with his action. So, we both walk happily towards his car. Second surprise appeared, he opened the car door and hand me a bouquet of flowers...I was thinking that he must have done something wrong today, otherwise, he wouldnt be so good...Without thinking too much, he drove me to dinner...On the way, we just have our ordinary chat, talk about work today, talk about funny thing and geram thing happened at office today....
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When we reached mid valley, he lead me to Sanfranc for dinner...It's very suspicious ohh!!! (but, I just cant make a guess on his intention that time). While waiting our food to be served,we chatted alot....Suddenly, I told him that my sis and Sue are also at mid valley as my sis called me up this afternoon, saying they both are coming here for shopping...So, immediately, I took out my phone, dial my sis's number...."Wei, guess what?!! I'm having dinner with Wei Haw at Sanfranc, you wan to join me??''...Of course my sis and Sue are more than happy to join us....But then....I just dunno my phone call just now has destroyed my hubby's 'perfect plan'.
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Half way eating my steak, before my sis and Sue came to mess up everything...Hubby took out a ring, and told me he has something to tell me....OH GOSH!!! This is the moment, I just know it!!! that's where the flowers come front, that's where my luxury dinner come from, right?? my heart is beating so fast....I remembered he asked me ' DO YOU WANT TO BE MY LAO PO??' instead of 'Would you marrying me?' I feel so shy at that moment....HEY, I have been with him more than 6 years, the word 'shy' should not be applicable anymore...BUT then, I just feel so shy, I can feel my cheeks are blushing...I used the table clothes to cover my face...and then we both laugh....Aiyo...how to answer arr? say 'Yes' meh?? I cant remember how I answered him...And then, he put on the ring at my finger. Just right after that, my sis and Sue arrived...We shared our joy together!!! It's a happy moment!!! :)
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Story continue when hubby fetch me home, he supposed to get the permission from my parent. So, he came in to my house and I told my parent that Wei Haw has something to say...This is how my silly hubby asked for permission, ''uncle, auntie, can you both let xiao xia marry me arr??'' Wuahahaha :D My parent also get stunned....And I remembered my mum, ''If wanna get marry, then mai discuss discuss about the details lo...'' :)
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Until today, I dunno when did my hubby plan for all these?? Did he discuss with his friends on this?? What makes him to do the proposal at that very early stage?? (we both just started our career that time)...
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BUT, I have no regret to have him as my life time partner....for his guts at that moment, for his true heart to loving me more everyday, for his tolerance to my bad temper, for treating me like a queen and Tiffy like a princess everyday :D

Monday, June 29, 2009

Everything papa papa!!!

Everything to Tiffy now is all about her beloved PAPA. She shouts her PAPA everyday and night....
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When I say 'Hug Hug' to her, she will move forward towards me and say 'PAPA BAO'
When I teach her 'Book', she say 'PAPA BOK'
When I talk over the phone, she'll imitate me and starts shouting 'PAPA'
Before she falls asleep, she'll shouts 'PAPA'
Once she wakes up, she'll shouts 'PAPA'
When she's happy, she'll shouts 'PAPA'
When she's fussing, she'll shouts 'PAPA'
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Tiffy becomes a daddy's girl nowaday...When her daddy is around, she wouldnt want me to carry her...stick to her daddy most of the time...Until now, she hasnt shown any sign of calling me 'MAMA'...Aiks!!!!
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Saturday, June 27, 2009

Palm print on face

Tiffy likes to sleep at her right side with her right hand putting under her right cheek. My mum always say that Tiffy has 'big small cheek', I suppose this is the reason, but what to do?? she can only falls asleep at her right side...
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This is what happen to Tiffy's cheek when Tiffy wakes up with THAT sleeping style....
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YAYA!!! Her palm was actually printed on her cheek...like being slapped by someone...hehehe :D
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Friday, June 26, 2009

Funny conversations

Hubby needs to go to JB for business trip, asking if Tiffy and I wanna follow him there...OF COURSE we want!!! We both are 跟得夫人 and 跟得宝宝 ohhh!!!

These are the funny conversation there...

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( 大姨丈came back from work in the evening, 大姨 was carrying Tiffy standing at the front door)

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大姨丈: 胖妞,来,姨丈抱抱。。。

大姨 : 做么叫阿宝胖妞, 很难听le....叫肥妹都还好一点。。
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胖妞 vs 肥妹 ----> wuahahahhaha :D
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Scene 2 :
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(Having dinner at a restaurant)
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可芯 : 妈咪,阿宝一定会给鸡鸡阿姨骂的啰!
妈咪 : 做么le....
可芯 : 因为阿宝酱小就坐到驼背驼背了。。。
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鸡鸡阿姨's power!!!! Yeah!!! :p
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Scene 3 :
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(At the garage chatting with neighbours while Keshin was holding Tiffy practising walking)
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Daddy : 老婆,你看小宝的大腿。。。
Me : 很像萝卜horrr??
Daddy : 不是le...好像有橙皮组织le...
Me : 哪里可能。。。小宝很小吧了le...
Daddy : 我看我们要帮小宝按摩按摩一下了。。。
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Cellulite happens to baby below age 1, possible???

Thursday, June 25, 2009

No appetite

I cant eat alot, I cant drink plain water, I do not have appetite, I throw up everything that my baby doesnt like, this is how I feel lately. The foods and drinks I consumed the most in a day were hot milo, cream cracker, bread, guava, mango and orange. I do not know what kind of taste that my baby likes, is it sweet? is it salty? is it spicy? I do not know, I do not crave on any food or taste...
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Eventhough I do not crave on any food or taste, I hate some of the smells or foods...Tiffy's porridge's smell comes first. Everytime I got to smell her porridge, I feel like vomitting. I dunno why? I just hate the smell...Luckily, I have my mum-in-law who help me to cook her porridge everyday, she helps to feed Tiffy too. At night, hubby will be the one who help me on this. I really appreciate both of them, it ease my 'uneasiness'. Secondly, I think it's the fying onions, garlics and fishes smell. The smell is really really disgusting and unbearable!!!! :(
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Hmm....In fact, most of the day time, I'm doing pretty well...I can play with Tiffy, I can watch drama, I can sleep well...But, when the night comes, I'll feel terrible dizziness, nausea, no appetite, feel like vomitting all night long. I'll feel extremely tired and sleepy too. So, I sleep pretty early nowaday, to avoid all these bad feeling strike me....I would rather go sleep!!!
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Aiks, I know I have to be mentally and physically strong, for myself and for my babies....I'm really hoping this awful feeling will go away very very soon....
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Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Ugly hair style?!

Tiffy's birthday is just around the corner, I'm cracking my head how to dress up Tiffy, how to style Tiffy's hair on this big day....
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This is the first trial...MMS the photo to my sister immediately after I captured it....Guess what is her response???
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Ah Yi said : Why mummy help u to tight such an ugly hair style??
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So, first trial consider fail....Aiks!!!! does this really looks that bad??

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

FINALLY, I can be contactable!!!

Many people complaint that I'm always unreachable or MIA...Neither phone call nor text messege could reach me. I dont really mean it, ok!!! It's hard to explain, eventhough I've explained, it's hard for people to believe.
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Well, I gotta explain for myself for the one last time.
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This is my phone, before it was damaged by Tiffy.
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After a few attempt of munching, biting by Tiffy, my phone becomes like this....
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See it??!! The navigator button was actually bitten off by Tiffy. And I suspect her saliva has damaged the chipboard and the keypad as well. It does function, but depends on its mood.
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Normally, when a phone call come in, my phone will cancel off the call after the first ring automaticly. For those who doesnt know the condition of my phone, for sure they will think I'm the one who cancel off the call....Hey, it wasnt me, it's my lousy phone!!!! Yet, if you try the 2nd atempt to call me, my phone wouldnt cancel the call and if you are lucky, you will hear 'wassup' from the other side...
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Secondly, the condition of my battery is also near to 'holland' already. It needs to be charged every few hours. I'm not sure what's wrong with it...Maybe Tiffy dropped it to the floor for few times, and that's it!!! So, my friends, my family, my hubby complaint that I did not turn on the phone always...Aiks!!!
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Thirdly, I've to admit, I silent my phone sometimes, especially when Tiffy's taking her nap. It really drive me to crazy after a 30 minutes of patting Tiffy, and she almost falls asleep, suddenly, my phone rings and she opens her eyes widely, not showing any sign of sleepy anymore...Sorry lah!!! my friends....
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Because of the complications to reach me, some will try to email, msn, facebook or even call to my house number....I have to apologise for all the inconvenient caused. SORRY YA :)
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Anyway, hubby got me a new handphone yesterday. So, I guess the 1st and 2nd conditions are avoidable now...If you still cant reach me when it's not Tiffy noon nap time, hmmm....you know why la....***Ahem Ahem*** hehehehe :p
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Monday, June 22, 2009

Dancing Tiffy

It's so hard to capture the video of Tiffy's dancing. Each time, when I took out my camera, she got distracted and showing more interest to my camera.

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Tiffy refuse to dance to me nowaday. Everytime, I asked her to dance, she dont bother me. (I've been asking her to dance many times in a day, just to let me capture the video). She must be feeling annoyed with the frequent requests from me.

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She enjoys dancing with her daddy, her grandpapas and grandmamas...Everyone is so happy to see Tiffy's dancing...My dad and mum said, she's fat fat, when she swing her shoulder and arm, it's very nice and funny to see :). Since then, Tiffy has became the entertainer of the day.

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Sunday, June 21, 2009

Walking in bare feet

Tiffy's more stable in walking now while someone is holding her hand. Although sometimes still like a drunken baby, but she's showing improvement. She will lift up her feet when there is a step in front or when I try to lead her to go up a staircase, which I think it's a big improvement.
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Maybe Tiffy's growing older now, she's no longer refusing 外公 and 外婆 that much...(My dad even said he has to buy lottery as Tiffy stretch out her hands wanted him to carry her, what a good sign :) )

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Tiffy's happily exploring around in bare feet while 外公's holding her arms.

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Unfortunately, I havent got Tiffy a pair of walking shoes. I havent got her a pair of FIT AND COMFORTABLE walking shoes. I bought a pair from baby zara last week, but it's quite heavy and slightly bigger in size, Tiffy cant even move her step in this shoes. Right now, pity Tiffy has to walk in bare feet until I find a pair of shoes for her :(

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Saturday, June 20, 2009

Change of milk and milk bottle

I've switched Tiffy's milk powder from Enfalac A+ to Enfapro A+. To ensure a smooth transition, I'll be started off with the below schedule:

Day 1 to 3 - morning - Lac, noon - Pro, evening - Lac, nite - Lac
Day 4 to 6 - morning - Lac, noon - Pro, evening - Pro, nite - Lac
Day 7 to 9 - morning - Pro, noon - Pro, evening - Pro, nite - Lac
Day 10 onwards - switch to EnfaPro A + entirely

Today is the first day Tiffy tried on her new formula milk, she cant finish her 8.5 oz of milk, left 3 oz in bottle, not sure if it's the taste or other reason. Shall monitor again tomorrow...

Info extracted from internet [EnfaLac A+ vs EnfaPro A+ --> Enfapro A+ is specially equipped for those who do not react or adapt well to solid food like porridge where they need more protein and calcium. Enfapro A+ is added with protein and calcium. So, it is always advisable for mummies to start babies with porridge at an early age]

Besides the formula milk, I'm also changing her feeding bottle to the new Avent BPA free bottle, downgrade from the biggest size to the 9 oz bottle as I couldnt find the big Avent BPA free bottle during the last visit to Singapore. Anyway, I dont intend to increase her milk consumption for the time being too, hence, 9 oz should be enough to last for another 3-4 months


Thursday, June 18, 2009

Happy 3rd Wedding Anniversary~~

Di,
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hAppY 3rd wEdDiNg aNnivErSary!!!!!

Love,
老婆

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

六牙宝宝

Signs of tooth popping up are very obvious to be seem on Tiffy since 2 weeks ago. But, I just cant see any white spot on her gum.
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This is what she does the most since 2 weeks ago - biting her upper lip.
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Most of time, she's showing this too -- using her lower jaw to cover her upper teeth, which is kinda ugly and I always try to adjust her jaw when she's showing this face.
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When I tried to put her to nap in the afternoon, as usual, I check on her gum. I can feel the sharpness of the new tooth already. It's the lateral incisor, grows on upper gum. All together, Tiffy's having 6 teeth by now. We are going to bring her for dental check next month, when she's exactly 1 year old. Phew!!! Time flies....

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Favorite activity 3 - Pour water

Hubby has been nagging me on this for thousand times, but I'm just kinda lazy to feed Tiffy water with straw. Most of time, I'll use feeding bottle, easy and no mess!!! However, this EASY + NO MESS treatment no longer a no-mess.
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Everytime when I tried to feed her water, as usual, she'll hold the feeding bottle by herself. After drinking for a while, she'll pull it out, roll over and starts with her new found game.
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She understands that giving pressure to the teat will cause the water leaking out.

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Sometimes, she uses her fingers to give pressure to the teat.
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The other time, she just terbalik the feeding bottle and hold it vertically, let the surface to give pressure to the teat.
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She's happily seeing the whole place getting wet. However, it's indeed causing a mess ohh!!!
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Monday, June 15, 2009

Favorite activity 2 - Watching Cartoon

Watching cartoon programme has became Tiffy daily routine.
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She watches her all time favorite Playhouse Disney channel in the morning.
She watches her all time favorite Playhouse Disney channel in the afternoon.
She watches her all time favorite Playhouse Disney channel at night.
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This is Tiffy, hardly get distracted!!!
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It isnt my intention to let her watch so much of the cartoon programme. I wasnt feeling very well recently. All my good friends like Nausea, Morning sickness, Afternoon sickness, Night Sickness visit me frequently. And only by switching on her favourite channel can keep her sit still for some times.
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Tiffy loves watching Mickey Mouse cartoon the most. Besides this, she loves watching advertisements too. Those TV programmes previews or songs are able to capture her attention as well. Most of the time, when there is song played on TV, she'll dance (by twisting her shoulder and move her arms backward and forward) and sing 'AaaaaAaaaaAaaaa', which entertain me and cheer me up each time!!! :D
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Sunday, June 14, 2009

Favorite activity 1 - Play play play

Tiffy is very tricky nowaday...Instead of you play peekaboo with her, she'll initiate the game with you...
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Luckily, Harris and Shannon always around to play with Tiffy. During the last school holiday, Ke Shin and Ke Er were here to help me 'entertain' Tiffy too. Besides playing with them, Tiffy sometimes will sit alone in the living hall playing with her 'Ogaganashina' masak-masak, new Megablocks toys, Vtech Sunshine Discovery Farm for quite some times without fussing, which I really appreciate that.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Move with butt

Tiffy doesnt know how to crawl, but she's able to move around, with her very special skill...
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My dad told me that when I was young, I used to move like this too. Never use my hands and feet to crawl.

It's really like mother like daughter :)

Friday, June 12, 2009

If I'm....

If I'm a boy...I think I'll be as macho as this....


If I'm having 4 eyes...I think I'll be the next 'IQ 博士'
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If you, YES YOU!!! If you are here, I'm going to give you a big hug :D
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Thursday, June 11, 2009

Pulau Pangkor - Day 3

Backdated post - 9.6.2009 Tuesday
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Tiffy woke up very early in the morning. All the kids was so excited to go for the one last round of swimming before headed back to KL.
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As Tiffy was having runny nose, I dont intend to let her swim...However, the swimming pool was so tempting with so many kids having fun playing, splashing water.
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Hence, Tiffy was letting to go in with her pyjamas.
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Tiffy : Harris gogo, you want to challenge me huh???

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Tiffy : 1...2...3...Lets go!!!
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Tiffy : I gotta swim faster, daddy....please move faster!!!!
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It's time to go back!!!
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Grandpa's pushing Tiffy's car, heading back to the hotel...



One last family shot before leaving this wonderful place.

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Bye Pulau Pangkor~~~
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写真集@Pulau Pangkor


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Pulau Pangkor - Day 2

Backdated post -8.6.2009 Monday

Surprisingly, Tiffy was the last one to wake up, she must be too tired!!!We took a taxi to the Pangkor town round trip. Stopby at a Chinese Templer.

Well, when we asked Tiffy to '拜拜' (Pray), she was actually wave bye bye and say 'ai...', she must be confused the meaning of 拜拜 (Pray) and 拜拜(Goodbye) :p
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Another family shot...
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Tiffy's showing fierce face after waiting for too long...To all of us surprise, mum-in-law was actually buying 15kg of anchovies...*cracking head* Do we really need this much???

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Tiffy's comunicating with baby Shirow in the evening...Most of the time, Tiffy was using the spoon or hand to beat her, each time making baby Shirow cry out loud...bad girl!!!
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Sand playing time!!!! Time to release Tiffy's endless energy....

Had so much fun playing with the sand, water and toys....


Finally, Tiffy release her stool at the beach after suffering from constipation for 3 days...What to do?? She's too busy to sit still and concentrate to make the 'big business'...

Later, we headed for our dinner at a seafood restaurant, Tiffy was too tired and dozed off before the dinner is served.